By Sheila Frye, guest author – Associated Counselors & Psychologists Sydney
Speaking of issues, sometimes the only way around them is by compromising. Your partner will not miraculously stop being an extrovert, but you can help in making him understand that he needs to take a break lest he or your relationship suffers fatigue.
Making friends with an extrovert is the easy part. However, being in a relationship with one can be a bit taxing especially if you’re the more laidback type and prefer silence. The truth is, while extroverts are generally seen as happy people, they also encounter personality clashes, such as when their partner is more reserved or introverted.
- 10. Be prepared to compromise.
- Think of activities that will keep him or the both of you busy but won’t wear you out as much as going out. You can play video games every Sunday or adopt a pet that can take his mind off things that keeps him perennially busy. Your partner may find it hard to adjust in the beginning, but you can help him get used to the changes by simply supporting him and constantly communicating.
A lot of extroverts are often misunderstood as happy-go-lucky people. But before you decide to join that bandwagon, you have to play fair with your partner and try looking at things from their perspective. Take advantage of the fact that extroverts like to talk, and make sure that you get your point across.
There are times when clashing of a couple’s personalities can’t be resolved between partners alone. If you have a reason to believe that you and your partner’s issues are bordering on being out of control, you can opt to escalate your relationship problems to a professional who can give you proper advice. In any case, it’s still worth trying these ways to show your love for your extrovert partner.
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