By Sheila Frye, guest author – Associated Counselors & Psychologists Sydney
Spotting an extrovert in a crowd is the exact opposite of finding a needle in a haystack. More often than not, extroverts are the ones who easily mingle with anyone whether it’s a familiar face or a fresh acquaintance. They know most people in the room—either that or they’re working on it. In some cases, they are the actual life of the party
Here’s the thing: making friends with an extrovert is the easy part. However, being in a relationship with one can be a bit taxing especially if you’re the more laidback type and can prefer silence. The truth is, while extroverts are generally seen as happy people, they also encounter personality clashes, such as when their SO is a more reserved one or an introvert.
- 5. Remind them of your needs.
Remind them of your needs.
It’s one thing for your extrovert partner to bring you wherever he goes so that you can enjoy each other’s company while being with other people. However, spending quality time together is a different story.
It’s good if you allow your partner to socialize regardless of whether he tags you along, but it’s also important that you bond and do things as a couple. Engage in activities where you have each other’s undivided attention and do them on a regular basis. It can be as simple as going to an art gallery, but if you want to touch base with your inner risk-taker, go camping together.
A lot of extroverts are often misunderstood as happy-go-lucky people. But before you decide to join that bandwagon, you have to play fair with your partner and try looking at things from their perspective. Take advantage of the fact that extroverts like to talk, and make sure that you get your point across.
There are times when clashing of a couple’s personalities can’t be resolved between partners alone. If you have a reason to believe that you and your partner’s issue are bordering on being out of control, you can opt to escalate your relationship problems to a professional who can give you proper advice. In any case, it’s still worth trying these ways to show your love for your extrovert partner.
Tune in next week for part 6 of 10 Ways to Take Care of Your Extrovert Partner @ Intentional-Relationship.com