Consider your communication style and notice when you slip into dysfunctional patterns: Turn your relationship towards win-win!

No one is perfect, and there will likely be times when you or your partner succumb to using passive or aggressive communication. Notice when this happens, make amends and vow to make this the exception rather than the norm, and your relationship will grow!

What is your communication style? Generally, there are four common styles:

  • Passive
  • Aggressive
  • Passive aggressive
  • Assertive

1. Passive

Passive communicators are often unwilling to share thoughts, feelings, or desires in an honest way. This tendency may stem from low self-esteem, but it is also used to avoid criticism or hurting others’ feelings. Being the recipient of passive communicators tend to leave their partner feeling angry, confused, and mistrustful.

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Consider your communication style and notice when you slip into dysfunctional patterns and turn your relationship towards win-win!

Tune in next week for part 2.

Source: The Couple Checkup Book ©2008

Tune in for tip 2 in this series next week at Intentional-Relationship.com

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